Bill Cosby Accused….Lena Dunham Off the Hook

A black male entertainer is accused of raping adult women and his shows are cancelled.

Lena Dunham, a white female entertainer, who openly admits -without any embarrassment and as if she is STILL fantasizing about the child’s anatomy- admits to sexually abusing her sister for years when her sister was seven years younger than her, is uplifted as a role model by most of the media and by many women, and her show on HBO has NOT been cancelled.

In spite of the fact that 95% of people commenting about Lena Dunham on the Online media websites, do so with anger at her, and pointing out that she is a child abuser, most of the U.S. news media continues to support her.

Bill Cosby

Bill Cosby

The U.S. media has gone wild this weekend with the news that the legendary Bill Cosby has been accused of rape by several women.

The news media have virtually pounced on Cosby, and the stories are running like wildfire.

Lena Dunham has been given a gift by the women accusing Bill Cosby, and by the media….and by Bill Cosby, for being a black male.

www.usmagazine.com

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Self-Proclaimed Child Molester Wins Literary Award

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When a woman, who has openly admitted, to acts of child molestation, wins a Literary Award, I know the children of this earth are in deep trouble.

Lena Dunham openly wrote with self-aggrandizement, about bribing her little sister, seven years her junior, for kisses on the lips and bribed the child to get her to “relax” on top of Lena, and wrote about pleasuring herself next to the child up until Lena was 17 years old.

Lena Dunham, posted a photo on Instagram about a year ago of her then five year-old sister wearing make-up, fake breasts, and “bad girl motorcycle chick” written on her tee-shirt. Lena posted the photo with the caption,”that time I dressed my 5 year old sister as a Hell’s Angel’s sex property”

I reported that photo to Federal Authorities as child pornography.

…and now, Lena Dunham has won a literary award for publishing a book in which she writes as if she is still fantasizing about the child’s anatomy, and that when she fooled around with the child’s vagina, the child “didn’t resist…”

It is also likely that Lena put those pebbles in her little sister’s vagina, not the one year old girl.

…and the mainstream press is glorifying her

Lena Dunham, who herself admits in her book, Not That Kind Of Girl, that she did to her little sister, “basically anything a sexual predator might do to woo a small suburban girl,”  was awarded on Tuesday, Nov. 11, at the Pen Center USA 24th Annual Literary Awards Festival in Beverly Hills.

I wish I still lived in California, I would have been outside that building with a sign of protest.

I continue to be blown away at the brain-dormant mass media who have written nearly all positive things about her, and when they do, they conveniently exclude the most damaging material from her book.

The U.S. Mass media should have been asking why a grown adult woman is writing about her sister’s vagina, her obsession with it, that she used to bribe her little sister to get the child to kiss her on the lips and to lay on her.

The media should be asking why she is writing about masturbating -until age 17- with the child in bed next to her…and why is she writing about it, using words that are titillating and using words that describe what might be found in the mind of any sexual predator of children.

“I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina [to examine it] She didn’t resist…”…”Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night.” (while Lena masturbated)

The mass media, instead of asking why Lena Dunham is not embarrassed about publishing the material, and instead of urging her to seek help from a mental health professional, has uplifted this child molester as as ‘beautiful celebrity with literary talent, and feminist values.’

What took place, was not “mutual sexual play” or two children “exploring themselves.” It was Lena, exploring HERSELF, by pushing herself on a child -seven years younger than she is, and by exploring herself as she masturbated next to an innocent child, “trying to figure things out.”

Trying to figure out if she has tendencies towards pedophilia?

The vast majority of the U.S. media are so ignorant that they have described reactions like mine as “wild overreaction” and “sexual-abuse hysteria.” This is demeaning and shows total ignorance towards child sexual abuse –especially same-sex sibling abuse, and sibling sexual abuse by an older sister.

One writer even called Lena a “role model.”

Yes, she is a “role model” for any would-be sexual perpetrator of children to know exactly what to do, and to not worry about it, because he or she will be supported by the ignorant mass media.

The photo that Lena posted of her little sister at age five, is child pornography: http://instagram.com/p/fT7ugRi1Ob

Please report the photo here: http://www.missingkids.com/cybertipline/

Please sign the petition to HBO to have Lena Dunhma’s show, “Girls” cancelled, and please post the link anywhere you can think of:

http://www.change.org/p/hbo-end-contract-with-lena-dunham

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Don’t You Want To Help Other Little Children?

Getting this woman’s show cancelled sends a huge message to society about child sexual abuse…the message that we take it very seriously.

Please, please…keep signing these petitions. I have found a good one:

http://www.change.org/p/hbo-end-contract-with-lena-dunham

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Take Action: Sign Petition To HBO To Cancel Lena Dunham’s Show

Today someone told me that I should create an online petition to get HBO to cancel Lena Dunham’s series, “Girls,” because of Dunham’s new book, in which the actress/producer virtually proudly tells the world she is a child molester.

I thought the petition was a great idea, and did a quick search. I found that someone else already has done it!

Please sign these petitions: change.org

and this one: sign the petition, and please pass this information on to others.

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The only thing I don’t like about the petition is that the person who started it mentions Lena as a “left-wing activist.” This issue has NOTHING to do with politics. This has nothing to do with “right or left,” or with any other activism Lena Dunham has done.

Please do not allow politics, or political affiliations, or right or left wing belief systems taint the fact that this woman has openly admitted, and with self-aggrandizement, that she molested her little sister, and she may very well still have the propensity to be vile with a child because she was not embarrassed about publishing the material, and she has shown no remorse for her actions with her sister, and she almost makes it sound like it was a good thing.

Many of you might be fans of the show “Girls,” and might be reluctant to sign the petition because you enjoy the show. But when it comes to child sexual abuse and child molestation, people need to remove their blinders and do what is right, or child abuse will never be taken seriously and molesters will be given a green light to sexually violate children.

If you are still trying to convince yourself that Lena did nothing wrong, or that it was “mutual sexual play” between children, then please review this information:

  • When the older, dominating child is age seven and the younger sibling is age one, it is NOT two children close in age exploring each other’s bodies.
  • When a teenager (aged thirteen to seventeen) is deliberately masturbating next to a much younger child, in the same bed as the child, it is child sexual abuse on the younger child. It is a violation of the personal and sexual space of the younger child. Given all of Lena’s own words, she very likely masturbated next to the little girl, with mental sexual gratification from the child being next to her.

From Lena Dunham’s Book, Not That Kind of Girl: A Young Woman Tells You What She’s “Learned”:

Lena writes in her book that her “curiosity” about her little one year-old sister’s vagina got to her, and she went to her little sister, and “carefully spread open her vagina.” Dunham writes, “She didn’t resist and when I saw what was inside I shrieked.” Lena says she found six or seven pebbles stuffed inside her sister’s vagina.

She then writes: “My mother didn’t bother asking why I had opened Grace’s vagina. This was within the spectrum of things I did”

What else did she do?

One of my readers pointed out that one year-olds do not put pebbles in their own vaginas. I also feel Lena may have put those pebbles in her sister’s vagina.

Dunham also admits in her book that she bribed her little sister with candy in order to get the child to kiss her on the lips for five seconds. This is total manipulation of the younger child. This is NOT “mutual play.”

Dunham wrote that she would bribe her little sister in order to get her to “relax on her” in front of the TV set, and would sneak into her sister’s room to listen to her breathe.

Even Dunham herself admits in her book that she did to her little sister, “basically anything a sexual predator might do to woo a small suburban girl.” This is an admission -be it conscious, or unconscious- this is an admission that she was a sexual aggressor.

Same-sex sibling sexual abuse has the ability to create serious physical and emotional problems in the sibling who was abused.

What if Lena Dunham’s case were an older teenage boy who masturbated next to his little sister, and that same boy had admitted to being curious about his little sister’s vagina and wanted her to lay on him, and had bribed his sister into kissing him on the lips. What if this were the scenario?

Or, better yet, what if it were a priest who admitted to perpetrating these same acts when he was seven, and again, when he was a teenager? You can bet your life that everyone, including the U.S. media, would be demanding the Vatican to have that priest removed.

Also, please view the photo that Lena Dunham posted of her little sister, then age five, and the comment she made about the photo on Instagram.

The photo shows the five year-old child with make-up, fake breasts, and “bad girl motorcycle chick” written on her shirt. Dunham writes about the photo: “that time I dressed my 5 year old sister as a Hell’s Angel’s sex property” (you can view the photo by clicking on the link below this article)

Please read this sentence from Dunham’s book, describing the times she shared a bed with the child (in which teenage Lena masturbated next to her little sister):

“I shared a bed with my sister, Grace, until I was seventeen years old,” Dunham wrote in Not That Kind of Girl. “She was afraid to sleep alone and would begin asking me around 5:00 P.M. every day whether she could sleep with me… Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night as I read Anne Sexton, watched reruns of SNL, sometimes even as I slipped my hand into my underwear to figure some stuff out.”

Then, please read this paragraph:

“Do we all have uteruses?” I asked my mother when I was seven. “Yes,” she told me. “We’re born with them, and with all our eggs, but they start out very small. And they aren’t ready to make babies until we’re older.” I look at my sister, now a slim, tough one-year-old, and at her tiny belly. I imagined her eggs inside her, like the sack of spider eggs in Charlotte’s Web, and her uterus, the size of a thimble.”

“Tiny belly,” “slim,” “sticky, muscly little body, thrashing beside me…” Words of a pedophile?

You decide:

“Grace was sitting up, babbling and smiling, and I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina. She didn’t resist…”

Lena Dunham writes as if she is still fantasizing about this child’s vagina, and about the moment she pried it open.

Can’t you see this? Please people, open your eyes and sign the petition. Click on the link below:

change.org

thepetitionsite.com

….

View the photo of the five year-old dressed up with make-up and fake breasts:

instagram.com

In case she removes the photo from Instagram, it is also here:

breitbart.com

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Lena Dunham: Keep Her Away From Children

The severity of Lena Dunham’s words were not truly evident to me until this morning.

When I saw the photo she posted of her little sister Grace, about a year ago, and the comment she made about the photo on Instagram, I feel she is a danger to children.

The photo shows the five year-old child with make-up, fake breasts, and “bad girl” written on her shirt. Dunham writes about the photo: “that time I dressed my 5 year old sister as a Hell’s Angel’s sex property #1997″

http://instagram.com/p/fT7ugRi1Ob

In case she removes the photo from Instagram, it is also here:

http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Hollywood/2014/11/03/lena-dunham-instagram/

Then I re-read this sentence from Dunham’s book, describing the times she shared a bed with the child (in which Dunham masturbated next to her):

“I shared a bed with my sister, Grace, until I was seventeen years old,” Dunham wrote in Not That Kind of Girl. “She was afraid to sleep alone and would begin asking me around 5:00 P.M. every day whether she could sleep with me… Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night as I read Anne Sexton, watched reruns of SNL, sometimes even as I slipped my hand into my underwear to figure some stuff out.”

Figure what out? If you are a child molester, or attracted to children in a sexual way?

Then I re-read this paragraph:

“Do we all have uteruses?” I asked my mother when I was seven. “Yes,” she told me. “We’re born with them, and with all our eggs, but they start out very small. And they aren’t ready to make babies until we’re older.” I look at my sister, now a slim, tough one-year-old, and at her tiny belly. I imagined her eggs inside her, like the sack of spider eggs in Charlotte’s Web, and her uterus, the size of a thimble.”

“Tiny belly,” “slim,” “sticky, muscly little body, thrashing beside me…” Words of a pedophile?

You decide:

“Grace was sitting up, babbling and smiling, and I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina. She didn’t resist…”

Lena Dunham: Child Molester?

Lena Dunham:

Dunham titled her book, “Not That Kind of Girl.” I think she is indeed that kind of girl, and this woman should never be allowed around children.

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Lena Dunham: It’s Worse Than You Think

Slate Magazine is reporting that Lena was at least 13 years old when she masturbated next to her little sister, who would have been about six or seven at the time. This is depraved behavior, and given the fact that it is reported that Dunham describes in her book that she bribed her little sister to kiss her on the lips when the child was only age one, and that she tried to trick the child into kisses and used bribes to get the child to “relax on her” and was so curious about the child’s vagina… there is a good chance Lena masturbated next to her sister because she was sexually stimulated by the younger child.

Slate Magazine is quoting a psychologist, Ritch Savin-Williams, as saying, “Children have been doing this stuff forever and ever and ever and ever, and they will do it forever and ever and ever.”

and…

“According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, touching and looking at new sibling’s genitals is a “normal, common” behavior in kids ages 2 to 6. (Yes, Dunham was apparently 7 when it happened, but still.) This was happening between sisters, too, which is important. It’s not necessarily OK for a child to play sexually with a younger child if he or she don’t typically play together, but among siblings or close friends it can be different. Sexual play often arises naturally out of pretend play, in part because, psychologists have theorized, friends and siblings become curious about each other’s body parts.

….Then there is Dunham’s admission that she bribed her sister to kiss her on the lips for five seconds. Yes, it’s coercive—but is it harmful? “It sounds, from what Dunham is writing, that it’s just playful activity. One would seriously have to question that harm was done,” Savin-Williams says. And again, this kind of play is extremely common. In one study, researchers at Bryn Mawr College found that nearly one-third of women claimed to having been coerced into playing sexual games as children, and that most of the time, these games seemed perfectly normal.

Ritch Savin-Williams is wrong.

It is NOT “sexual play” or “games” when there is coercion, when the older sibling is dramatically older, and when the child is being tricked and masturbated next to.

It can be highly disturbing for the younger child when they are tricked, lured, or coerced.

In Lena Dunham’s case, she might even have created sexual identity issues in her younger sister, and caused her sister to now think she is a lesbian.

This can and does happen to children: Read one woman’s story here.

Same-sex sibling sexual abuse has the ability to create serious physical and emotional problems in the person who was abused.

The child who is subservient to the older sibling, can easily take on guilt, and feel responsible, in the sexual activity because the younger child is more inclined to do it in order to be accepted by their older peer, or to be brought into the magical world of the older sibling.

There can also come a time in the sexual activity (abuse) by the older sibling when the older sibling grows tired of the younger child and begins to date, or find new friends and activities that can leave the younger child feeling insignificant and very hurt that the sexual interaction (abuse by an older sibling) has ended. The self-worth of a child is extremely fragile, and the emotional abandonment can be very heavy on the younger child.

It is often the subtleties of sibling sexual abuse that experts miss, and mental health experts, who do not work with the subconscious mind, cannot possibly know the true emotions and thoughts of the child being sexually manipulated by their sibling.

What if Lena Dunham’s case were an older teenage boy who masturbated next to his little sister, and that same boy had admitted to being curious about his little sister’s vagina and wanted her to lay on him, and had bribed his sister into kissing him on the lips. What if this were the scenario? Would these experts be singing a different tune?

Why is it, that women are allowed to get away with this kind of behavior merely because they are women? Why do mental health “experts,” friends, and loved ones excuse the behavior of young Dunham just because the acts involved two females, and not an older male sibling with his little sister? Why does the majority of the news media excuse Dunham when she has gone public with some pretty serious things.

Slate Magazine says: “in no way does what Dunham describe come close to the criminal-justice definition of sibling sexual abuse, which is “forcible rape, forcible sodomy, sexual assault with an object, and forcible fondling.”

Child sexual abuse does not have to include physical force! Gentle fondling, kissing, lying next to a child for the purposes of sexual gratification, and psychological tricks on the younger child is still sexual abuse.

I certainly do not feel she ought to be prosecuted, that would be ridiculous and unhelpful. But when an older sister manipulates, and tricks, a younger child into sexual acts, and when a teenage girl masturbates next to that same child, it can have major affects on the younger child, and on their sexuality.

In my opinion, Lena’s sister, Grace, might have become sexually attracted to women as an adult, and became a lesbian because her body might have been sexually stimulated at a very young age by Lena. Or possibly, Grace wanted to subconsciously please her older sister by becoming a lesbian. The psychodynamics are different for each person, so no one truly knows why they behave certain ways, and why they develop certain desires, sex-drives, or needs, unless they penetrate their own subconscious mind.

Most people have not been taught the powers of the subconscious mind. People have not been told that life experience as children -even seemingly harmless experiences- can alter our perceptions of our true selves.

Lena’s sister Grace also lives in a society where homosexuality is uplifted as normal, and straight people are nearly made out to be abnormal, or you aren’t “hip” or you are “judgmental” and “closed-minded” if you don’t accept homosexuality as normal, so of course it is much easier for a person to embrace lesbianism in the times we live.

The Huffington Post is reporting this apology given by Lena Dunham:

“Childhood sexual abuse is a life-shattering event for so many, and I have been vocal about the rights of survivors. If the situations described in my book have been painful or triggering for people to read, I am sorry, as that was never my intention. I am also aware that the comic use of the term “sexual predator” was insensitive, and I’m sorry for that as well. As for my sibling, Grace, she is my best friend, and anything I have written about her has been published with her approval.”

What was Dunham’s intention exactly? Where are her morals, dignity, and principles? What was her reasoning to write this in her book? Was it a cry for help, or to titillate readers? Or to sell books, or to normalize such things in the mind of society?

Same-sex child sexual abuse can create very heavy problems on a child.

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Child Sexual Abuse by a Same-Sex Sibling Is Not a Game or “Normal Exploration”

 

Warning….triggering material…

Lena Dunham, is a 28 year-old American actress, screenwriter, producer, and director who wrote and directed the independent film Tiny Furniture (2010), and is the writer, creator, and star of the HBO series Girls (which I have never seen or heard of).

Dunham has written a book called Not That Kind of Girl: A Young Woman Tells You What She’s “Learned.” In the book, published in September, Dunham goes into disturbing detail about acting out -sexually- on her younger sister.

Lena Dunham

Lena Dunham

Reports about the book reveal that when Dunham was age seven, she wondered if her then, one year- old sister’s, vagina looked like Lena’s.

Lena writes in her book that her “curiosity” got to her, and she went to her little sister, and “carefully spread open her vagina. She didn’t resist and when I saw what was inside I shrieked.”

Lena says she found six or seven pebbles stuffed inside her sister’s vagina.

One of my readers pointed out that one year-olds do not put pebbles in their vaginas. Although I have never had children, and do not know anything about their behaviors in this regard, I also feel Lena may have put those pebbles in her sister’s vagina.

The press is also reporting that Dunham wrote of masturbating in bed right next to her younger sister, and that she bribed her little sister with pieces of candy to allow the younger child to be kissed on the lips for five seconds.

Slate Magazine is reporting that Lena was at least 13 years old when she masturbated next to her little sister, who would have been about seven at the time. This is not okay! This is depraved behavior put onto a smaller child, and given the fact that Dunham bribed her little sister to kiss her at an earlier age, there is a strong chance Lena masturbated next to her sleeping sister for Lena’s sexual stimulation.

At the very least, it crosses serious boundaries with the younger child.

Dunham wrote that she would try to get her little sister to “relax on her” in front of the TV set, and would sneak into her sister’s room to listen to her breathe.

The National Review is calling her memories “child molestation.” I agree.

Even Dunham herself seems to admit it in her book. In a possible Freudian slip, she said that her acts upon her sister were “basically anything a sexual predator might do to woo a small suburban girl.” This is an admission -be it conscious, or unconscious- this is an indirect direct admission that what she was doing was not okay.

Lena knows inside herself that it was not okay.

The entire account of her writings disturbed me from the beginning –especially the bribe for kissing her sister on the lips, trying to get her sister to lay on her, and Dunham masturbating next to her little sister.

As a person who has experienced sexual abuse by both sexes, and at an extremely young age, I believe this was child sexual abuse, and possibly even contributed to the victim becoming a lesbian.

From her book

Passage from Dunham’s book

According to Vanity Fair, while receiving the Point Foundation’s Horizon Award for her advocacy work for gay rights, Dunham talked openly about her lesbian sister, Grace, in her acceptance speech:

“It was actually a huge disappointment for me, when I came of age and realized that I was sexually attracted to men,” Dunham quipped. “So when my sister came out, I thought, ‘Thank God, someone in this family can truly represent my passions and beliefs.’”

Dunham is also being quoted as saying, “My sister’s process of coming to terms with her sexuality was as angst-free as anything involving sex can really be. She was assured by the adults in her life that she was not only accepted, but adored for who she is.”

Dunham was angry when she was called a child molester by some of the right-wing news media. She tweeted that it was “fucking upsetting and disgusting.”

I am neither right-wing, nor left-wing, nor the mainstream media, and I also feel it was child sexual abuse. I think it is upsetting and disgusting when an older sibling bribes a vulnerable child to be able to kiss them on the lips, pries open their vagina, and who masturbates next to that child –especially if the older sibling is a teenager when she does it.

In my opinion, Dunham was sexually abusive to her sister, and possibly directly contributed to Grace’s lesbianism. This is my opinion, based on my experience with sexual abuse by a person of the same sex, and based on this compelling story: ordinaryevil.wordpress.com the-story-of-grace

Our childhood experiences with being sexually stimulated can create confusing physiological feelings in our mind and body, and a person can then become confused as an adult.

Dunham says she obtained her sister’s permission to disclose the acts in her book, but I find it disturbingly gross that she published it, and that her sister allowed it to be published is equally disturbing to me.  It wasn’t written in order to help victims of child sexual abuse. So was it written, and permitted to be written by Grace, in order for it to be titillating? Or was it for a good laugh?

I was not laughing when I read it. I was sickened by the words, and the images of those words, because it brought back my own abuse, and Dunham’s account of what she did was considered ‘no big deal.’ This is what nearly all perpetrators tell themselves about what they do to the innocent child that they involve in their acts.

The famous producer has gone public with this, in detail, and almost proudly. She didn’t do it to help victims of child sexual abuse, or to make people aware that female siblings sometimes sexually abuse their younger, almost infant, siblings.

Did Dunham want to write a TV show celebrating this kind of behavior? What exactly was the reason behind this information being brought out?

It has been reported that when Dunham discovered she was straight, and not gay, she was disturbed. This is very telling of the times we live in –the immoral is uplifted as good, the abnormal is celebrated and embraced, and the molestation (in my opinion) of Lena’s sister is written about as casually as talking about children playing dress-up together.

In my opinion, Lena Dunham has issues, and I hope she addresses them. One thing she needs to do, is to further educate herself on sibling sexual abuse, and the serious affects it can have on a person –especially same-sex sibling abuse.

Lena’s sister might very well have been confused in her mind about who she truly is sexually, but will never explore that possibility as long as gay and lesbianism is celebrated as normal and natural, and something people should try -or that if they are straight- there is something ‘wrong with them.’

Please do not write me and tell me I am a “homo-phobe,” or judgmental, or self-righteous, or whatever other derogatory label you wish to place on me. I have heard it all before, and it truly does not interest me.

What interests me is the psychological and physical safety, and well-being of children –not the corruption and confusion of the adult world.

Please read the story of another woman named Grace, who shows us that child sexual abuse by a sibling can and does create sexual confusion in the victim.

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Sources:
inquisitr.com
gawker.com
truthrevolt.org
vanityfair.com
buzzfeed.com
time.com
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