Why Do Parents Allow Their Child To Sleep in the Same Bed With Their Current Lover?

It is beyond me why some women let their children sleep in bed with their boyfriend.  There are fathers who are guilty of this too. They let their child sleep in bed with their girlfriend, or boyfriend. Some lesbian women do the same thing. No gender or sexual orientation is excused from this stupidity.

Sexual stimulation easily occurs between people living in the same home, and it can easily happen between children and adults. It is usually accidental, but if the adult begins to act on that pleasurable feeling, then it becomes child sexual abuse.


(Samantha Runnion, raped, murdered, and her body was dumped like a piece of trash)

In the case of Alejandro Avila, his girlfriend repeatedly allowed him to bathe her nine-year old daughter. Well you can guess what that led to! But a jury found him not-guilty of child molestation. They did not believe the two girl cousins he was molesting and abusing, and Avila ended up raping and murdering Samantha Runnion one year later….

“A former Massillon resident is responsible for teaching a 4-year-old girl that adults are capable of doing bad things to children, prosecutors said Tuesday during the opening statements of Kevin Pivato’s sexual molestation trial in Stark County Common Pleas Court.”

“Pivato, 24, is accused of molesting his former live-in girlfriend’s daughter between Dec. 1, 2009, and Oct. 12, 2010, at a First Street NE residence.

Pivato has pleaded not guilty to charges of gross sexual imposition and sexual battery. If convicted, Pivato could be sentenced to as many as 13 years in prison and would be required to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. He remains jailed on $500,000 bond.”

“The victim’s mother testified that Pivato admitted having inappropriate contact with the girl in November 2010.

“He admitted to me that it did occur and that he was sorry. I got very upset and told him to leave,” the woman said.

Pivato’s admission came after the victim had disclosed his behavior to her mother.

“She got scared and made me swear not to tell what she had told me,” the woman said. “… She said they had been playing a blanket game.”

“Initially, Pivato denied having sexual contact with the victim during an interview with Massillon police detective Bobby Grizzard. Later, however, he admitted that the girl sometimes slept in the same bed with he and the victim’s mother.

“He remembered that one morning, when his eyes were closed, he was cuddling what he thought was the child’s mother. He didn’t realize it was a 4-year-old girl,” Chawla said. “He said he had repressed that memory when speaking to (Bobby) Grizzard.” ~Indeonline



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5 Responses to Why Do Parents Allow Their Child To Sleep in the Same Bed With Their Current Lover?

  1. Anonymous says:

    Don’t forget to tell the rest of the story…Mr. Pivato was found NOT Guilty…and you should not let kids sleep in bed with anyone who is not thier parent!

    • Alethea says:

      I didn’t forget anything. I didn’t know. Thank you for telling me. I find it strange that he was found not-guilty. The article made it sound like he had admitted to it, but blamed repressed memory, and that he “accidentally” thought the four year-old was his girlfriend.

    • little nel says:

      He was found “not guilty” by a jury? This man is not innocent.

  2. litltle nel says:

    This is bullshit! That guy knew the difference. He just wanted to do the the mother and daughter at the same time. I’m so sick of these piss poor excuses that these perps invent. A “blanket game” is a pre-prepared alibi to get the child to think that nothing is wrong and explain away the abuse to the mother. I wonder how long it took “mom” to kick out the bum.

    • Alethea says:

      “I wonder how long it took “mom” to kick out the bum.”

      Considering that she let her child sleep in bed with her and the boyfriend in the first place, my guess is that it took her a while to convince herself that she needed to do the right thing and turn him in.

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